When we meet the right person to Love when we're at the right place at
the right time, that's a chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice. That's a chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and
there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens
afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down
and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or
just a fling. If you decide to Love a person, even with his faults, That's not
a chance. That's a choice.
When you choose to be with a person,
no matter what, That's a choice. Even if you know there are many people out
there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you
decide to Love your mate just the same, that's choice. Infatuation, crushes,
attraction comes to us by chance. But true Love that lasts is truly a choice. A
choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a
beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: "Fate brings
you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I do believe
that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's
still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or
not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul
mates is still A Choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to Love... BUT
to learn how to Love an imperfect person Perfectly...
[Conclusion]
It is not the matter how to find
someone perfect to love, but how to love someone imperfect perfectly .....
"True
Love it self is a choice..."